Have you been married less than 5 years?

Does your marriage need help?

 

Now is the time to get back on track and reclaim your relationship.

You can have the marriage you've always wanted!

 

 

The Transition of Marriage

The early years of marriage can be surprisingly difficult. In fact, you are statistically at the greatest risk for divorce
during the first five years of marriage. Transitioning from life as a single person to life as a couple can trigger feelings of anxiety, doubt, confusion... and conflict. Bad habits of communication can develop. The habits, traits, and quirks you once found endearing in your partner may now feel challenging, unsupportive, or unsatisfying. 

The good news is that the skills and behaviors that make a marriage last can be learned. No one is born knowing them. These first few years of marriage are the time to define a couple's roles, goals, values, and communication styles to pave the road for a lasting and happy marriage.

This time of transition also presents you with the opportunity to re-examine your role models for marriage and choose what you really want in your marriage. Although many people want a different marriage than what they grew up with, we usually repeat what we know. Now is the time to learn how to achieve the marriage of your dreams.

Are you planning on having children one day? By taking care of your marriage now, you are taking care of your future children. Invest in your marriage now so that your children can experience a unified and happy co-parenting team.

Set Your Marriage Up For Success


Why do some marriages last, while others don't? In our work together, you and your spouse will clarify your marriage goals while learning the skills and behaviors needed to make your marriage last. In our time together, you will both:

Assess your relationship strengths and growth areas
Learn the mistakes that may be damaging your marriage
Learn and practice key communication skills
Learn how to rebuild trust and resolve conflict
Discover and manage the impact of your family of origin on your marriage
Develop a financial and budget plan
Develop personal, couple, and family goals

You and your partner will learn and practice the skills needed for marriage success. Together you will begin a dialogue that will help you build a satisfying life long after your honeymoon.

Growing Your Relationship, Mastering Marriage

If you find that your new marriage is not what you had hoped or is having some problems, please don't wait one more day to explore therapy as an option. You can turn things around and get back on track, and I'd like to help. I specialize
in early marriage coaching and offer compassion and skill to those seeking professional support.

As an interactive, solution-focused therapist, my counseling approach with couples will help you reclaim your marriage, regain your sense of control, and move forward in your life together with confidence. My private practice is located in Marin County.

I am the author of "On the Road to Becoming a Successful Marriage and Family Therapist: An Insider's Handbook From Graduate School Through Licensure... and Beyond!" which is a required text in the course curriculum of several MFT graduate programs.

As a consultant and keynote speaker, I am also available to provide early marriage education and consultation to other professionals and organizations.

 

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Cris Walker Roskelley, MFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist MFC45504
250 Bel Marin Keys Blvd. • Bldg. C, Suite 1 • Novato • CA • 94949
415.289.2111

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